<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: About Atheist Mom</title>
	<atom:link href="http://atheistmom.com/about/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://atheistmom.com</link>
	<description>Recovering from religion...one baby step at a time.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 11:19:27 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.com/</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: hereticsanonymous</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-844</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[hereticsanonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 16:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-844</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi Atheistmom, what a cool blog you have!  I got linked to Jennifer Fulwiler&#039;s blog http://www.conversiondiary.com/ who is an &quot;atheist&quot; turned Catholic, and figured there must be awesome blogs (like yours) of atheist moms.  You two are like mirror images.  It would be awesome to have you together for a conversation someday on something like NPR...  

I wrote a response to Jennifer here -&gt; http://hereticsanonymous.wordpress.com/2012/05/03/an-open-letter-to-jennifer-fulwiler/]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Atheistmom, what a cool blog you have!  I got linked to Jennifer Fulwiler&#8217;s blog <a href="http://www.conversiondiary.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.conversiondiary.com/</a> who is an &#8220;atheist&#8221; turned Catholic, and figured there must be awesome blogs (like yours) of atheist moms.  You two are like mirror images.  It would be awesome to have you together for a conversation someday on something like NPR&#8230;  </p>
<p>I wrote a response to Jennifer here -&gt; <a href="http://hereticsanonymous.wordpress.com/2012/05/03/an-open-letter-to-jennifer-fulwiler/" rel="nofollow">http://hereticsanonymous.wordpress.com/2012/05/03/an-open-letter-to-jennifer-fulwiler/</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: mamawonder</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-834</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mamawonder]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 02:17:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-834</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just wanted to tell you that I really enjoy reading your blog.  I am from the states(the &quot;bible belt&quot;, to be exact) and have no support group when it comes to parenting.  I have spent the last couple hours reading some of your posts and I fell so refreshed. It is truly inspiring to know that there is someone out there who is not so different from myself. You seem like an amazing mom and a wonderful example of who atheists really are! Have a wonderful evening.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to tell you that I really enjoy reading your blog.  I am from the states(the &#8220;bible belt&#8221;, to be exact) and have no support group when it comes to parenting.  I have spent the last couple hours reading some of your posts and I fell so refreshed. It is truly inspiring to know that there is someone out there who is not so different from myself. You seem like an amazing mom and a wonderful example of who atheists really are! Have a wonderful evening.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Darbi</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-793</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Darbi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 03:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-793</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m sorry you are going through this.  Have you been to exmormon.org?  There are plenty of people on there who can help you transition out of the church gently and offer support if you choose to leave. There are also angry people who are extremely pissed off at the damage the church does... if you don&#039;t like one of those groups, ignore them and stick with the other.  I can understand both of them.  I grew up (not Mormon) in Utah, so I have some understanding of what it takes to leave the church, because I have watched friends do it.  I have also developed a healthy dislike for the organization and what it does to human beings both in and out of its flock.  It is hard to break free, and I think you are brave and smart for seeing the damage it does even after being indoctrinated and sealed in the temple and everything. You are not alone.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry you are going through this.  Have you been to exmormon.org?  There are plenty of people on there who can help you transition out of the church gently and offer support if you choose to leave. There are also angry people who are extremely pissed off at the damage the church does&#8230; if you don&#8217;t like one of those groups, ignore them and stick with the other.  I can understand both of them.  I grew up (not Mormon) in Utah, so I have some understanding of what it takes to leave the church, because I have watched friends do it.  I have also developed a healthy dislike for the organization and what it does to human beings both in and out of its flock.  It is hard to break free, and I think you are brave and smart for seeing the damage it does even after being indoctrinated and sealed in the temple and everything. You are not alone.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Darbi</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-792</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Darbi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 03:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-792</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Buybull! Holy crap, why haven&#039;t I heard that before? Priceless.  I have to say that I deeply admire all you atheist moms in the more religious parts of the country.  That must be so difficult; everyone around you has the same delusion (or similar versions of the same delusion), and you are treated as the crazy one.  I live in Seattle; it is not difficult to be an atheist (parent) here. Stay strong, sisters.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buybull! Holy crap, why haven&#8217;t I heard that before? Priceless.  I have to say that I deeply admire all you atheist moms in the more religious parts of the country.  That must be so difficult; everyone around you has the same delusion (or similar versions of the same delusion), and you are treated as the crazy one.  I live in Seattle; it is not difficult to be an atheist (parent) here. Stay strong, sisters.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: politicsandcardigans</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-752</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[politicsandcardigans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 16:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-752</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I believe that Atheists should be accepted like everyone else. I am a gay, liberal, pro choice, Catholic. I know I don&#039;t believe in everything that the Catholics have to say, it&#039;s just how I have been raised, so it&#039;s what I identify as. Many gay people don&#039;t go to church or are not religious, because they don&#039;t feel accepted. I don&#039;t let my religion or spirituality be influenced by the people of the church, but my belief system of God. I believe MOST Christians have it wrong, though there are some, like me, who get it right. My view is that I have my beliefs about God and spirituality, that God is the creator of the world, but that science is also correct. Basically, the idea is that God made the Big Bang and that everything in science is right, just done by a creator. I am also a good Christian in my opinion, because if when I die, I realize the Islamic, Judaic, or Hindu or any other faith was right, and I was wrong, that will be ok. I have the same chance as everyone else at being wrong. 

Also, a question. Say there is an afterlife, whatever it may be. How will you react? Also, are you open to your kids being religious even if you are not? It could happen... 

Politics and Cardigans
http://politicsandcardigans.wordpress.com]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe that Atheists should be accepted like everyone else. I am a gay, liberal, pro choice, Catholic. I know I don&#8217;t believe in everything that the Catholics have to say, it&#8217;s just how I have been raised, so it&#8217;s what I identify as. Many gay people don&#8217;t go to church or are not religious, because they don&#8217;t feel accepted. I don&#8217;t let my religion or spirituality be influenced by the people of the church, but my belief system of God. I believe MOST Christians have it wrong, though there are some, like me, who get it right. My view is that I have my beliefs about God and spirituality, that God is the creator of the world, but that science is also correct. Basically, the idea is that God made the Big Bang and that everything in science is right, just done by a creator. I am also a good Christian in my opinion, because if when I die, I realize the Islamic, Judaic, or Hindu or any other faith was right, and I was wrong, that will be ok. I have the same chance as everyone else at being wrong. </p>
<p>Also, a question. Say there is an afterlife, whatever it may be. How will you react? Also, are you open to your kids being religious even if you are not? It could happen&#8230; </p>
<p>Politics and Cardigans<br />
<a href="http://politicsandcardigans.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">http://politicsandcardigans.wordpress.com</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Nancy</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-744</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nancy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2012 00:47:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-744</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ll answer that, If we&#039;re wrong we&#039;ll just go to a kingdom and wait for a Mormon to baptise us by proxy in a Temple service ( baptism for the dead), that way we&#039;ll have a chance to make a much more informed decistion.   lol]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll answer that, If we&#8217;re wrong we&#8217;ll just go to a kingdom and wait for a Mormon to baptise us by proxy in a Temple service ( baptism for the dead), that way we&#8217;ll have a chance to make a much more informed decistion.   lol</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: morphthink</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-710</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[morphthink]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 12:11:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-710</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I am reading this from Australia and I am amazed that you are all still having this conversation about believing or not believing.  This was stuff that we used to earnestly discuss when I was a teenager at high school.  I am amazed that people are so polarised by what would seem to be a personal choice, not to mention the levels of judgement and disdain thrown around by both sides.  What is going on in America these days that people are so caught up in all this, that so much vitriol and anger is put in to this discussion?

I have lived and studied in the US for 3 years--it was a while ago I admit (the late 80s). I love the US and I have wonderful friends there, it is the most amazing country and, frankly it is critical for the rest of the world that the US continues to be amazing, but something is very wrong.  People seem so fearful, so judgmental, so critical and harsh.  People appear to be so insular and unaware of just how important the country is and the impact it has.  There are many, many important things going on in the world that need our attention, why do you spend so much of your energy focusing on whether other people believe or not, surely that is something that is entirely personal and is entirely their business!

I am a parenting expert (I learned my stuff in the US) I work with all sorts of families and kids, one&#039;s beliefs just don&#039;t come into it.  I&#039;ve seen terrible abusive parenting from the die-hard non believers all the way through to the hell fire and brimstone people--belief has nothing to do with it.  Both can be great and both can be terrible.

America, you are needed; this tearing yourself to pieces around this sort of thing is doing a major dis-service to your great and wonderful country.

Phil]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am reading this from Australia and I am amazed that you are all still having this conversation about believing or not believing.  This was stuff that we used to earnestly discuss when I was a teenager at high school.  I am amazed that people are so polarised by what would seem to be a personal choice, not to mention the levels of judgement and disdain thrown around by both sides.  What is going on in America these days that people are so caught up in all this, that so much vitriol and anger is put in to this discussion?</p>
<p>I have lived and studied in the US for 3 years&#8211;it was a while ago I admit (the late 80s). I love the US and I have wonderful friends there, it is the most amazing country and, frankly it is critical for the rest of the world that the US continues to be amazing, but something is very wrong.  People seem so fearful, so judgmental, so critical and harsh.  People appear to be so insular and unaware of just how important the country is and the impact it has.  There are many, many important things going on in the world that need our attention, why do you spend so much of your energy focusing on whether other people believe or not, surely that is something that is entirely personal and is entirely their business!</p>
<p>I am a parenting expert (I learned my stuff in the US) I work with all sorts of families and kids, one&#8217;s beliefs just don&#8217;t come into it.  I&#8217;ve seen terrible abusive parenting from the die-hard non believers all the way through to the hell fire and brimstone people&#8211;belief has nothing to do with it.  Both can be great and both can be terrible.</p>
<p>America, you are needed; this tearing yourself to pieces around this sort of thing is doing a major dis-service to your great and wonderful country.</p>
<p>Phil</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jackie Huntley</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-682</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jackie Huntley]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2012 17:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-682</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi :) I just wanted to say that I totally respect your point of view when you say you want your child to &quot;grow up to be a critical thinker who lives life in the now.&quot; And I am absolutely certain your child WILL grow up to be a critical thinker. But I have a question. If your child ever comes to the point of believing in the Bible and trusting in Jesus Christ, would you be upset? I consider myself an extremely critical thinker and logical person. I have an atheist friend who looks at me and can not understand why I believe in God when every  aspect of my thoughts and life are completely rational. Believing in God doesn&#039;t make me a drone or unable to think critically. Likewise, not-believing in God, doesn&#039;t make you a bad person. It is what you do that makes you who you are. To put it plainly, breaking the law is what makes you a law breaker. So why then do some people feel a need for God? Is it because we are lonely? Is it because we are brainwashed into thinking we do? The best way to describe it is to ask why a person needs a parent. You don&#039;t need parents because you are lonely. You don&#039;t need them because you are brainwashed into thinking you do. You don&#039;t even need them to survive. In fact the only thing you need them for is to be born. To be given life. And any sincere longing for them beyond that point could only be explained by the UNIQUELY human desire to have a meaningful relationship with that from which you came. Forget religion. That&#039;s not what God is, nor has He ever claimed to be.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi :) I just wanted to say that I totally respect your point of view when you say you want your child to &#8220;grow up to be a critical thinker who lives life in the now.&#8221; And I am absolutely certain your child WILL grow up to be a critical thinker. But I have a question. If your child ever comes to the point of believing in the Bible and trusting in Jesus Christ, would you be upset? I consider myself an extremely critical thinker and logical person. I have an atheist friend who looks at me and can not understand why I believe in God when every  aspect of my thoughts and life are completely rational. Believing in God doesn&#8217;t make me a drone or unable to think critically. Likewise, not-believing in God, doesn&#8217;t make you a bad person. It is what you do that makes you who you are. To put it plainly, breaking the law is what makes you a law breaker. So why then do some people feel a need for God? Is it because we are lonely? Is it because we are brainwashed into thinking we do? The best way to describe it is to ask why a person needs a parent. You don&#8217;t need parents because you are lonely. You don&#8217;t need them because you are brainwashed into thinking you do. You don&#8217;t even need them to survive. In fact the only thing you need them for is to be born. To be given life. And any sincere longing for them beyond that point could only be explained by the UNIQUELY human desire to have a meaningful relationship with that from which you came. Forget religion. That&#8217;s not what God is, nor has He ever claimed to be.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: izzy</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-670</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[izzy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Mar 2012 17:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-670</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m glad i found this. I&#039;m still in the LDS church, but I cannot help but see all the damage it does. there is no concept of moderation in anything. it is either terrible and you should never ever do it, or it is wonderful. our men are addicted to pornography and our women are on Prozac. But, it makes sense when you think that our masturbation is a crime against Chastity. Sure, a good priesthood holder would probably talk to the Bishop the first, second, or even third time he masturbated, but after that its easy to just feel helpless. sealed to your fate. Depression? I cringe when I hear my sunbeam sing the frowny face song. &quot;if you chance to see a frown, do not let it stick, simply turn it upside down and smile that frown away&quot; The message of that songs goes all the way into adult hood for us. I pride myself on looking happy, but I am not. I am so stuck. I made covenants in the temple one of which went along the lines of, &quot;give my talents and money to the church of jesus christ of latter-day saints for the building up of zion EVEN UNTO THE LAYING DOWN OF MY LIFE&quot; so why did i make that commitment if i felt uneasy keeping it? 1. they only give you an opportunity to leave BEFORE you know what the covenants are and 2. I was getting married 20minutes later to a guy I loved, my mother was next to me, and my entire neighborhood was waiting outside. now, if i was to leave the church it would be much worse for me. Heres a fun fact. Mormons don&#039;t really believe in a hell the closest thing to hell is outer darkness and only former mormons qualify. Thats right. Only Mormons can go to Mormon Hell.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m glad i found this. I&#8217;m still in the LDS church, but I cannot help but see all the damage it does. there is no concept of moderation in anything. it is either terrible and you should never ever do it, or it is wonderful. our men are addicted to pornography and our women are on Prozac. But, it makes sense when you think that our masturbation is a crime against Chastity. Sure, a good priesthood holder would probably talk to the Bishop the first, second, or even third time he masturbated, but after that its easy to just feel helpless. sealed to your fate. Depression? I cringe when I hear my sunbeam sing the frowny face song. &#8220;if you chance to see a frown, do not let it stick, simply turn it upside down and smile that frown away&#8221; The message of that songs goes all the way into adult hood for us. I pride myself on looking happy, but I am not. I am so stuck. I made covenants in the temple one of which went along the lines of, &#8220;give my talents and money to the church of jesus christ of latter-day saints for the building up of zion EVEN UNTO THE LAYING DOWN OF MY LIFE&#8221; so why did i make that commitment if i felt uneasy keeping it? 1. they only give you an opportunity to leave BEFORE you know what the covenants are and 2. I was getting married 20minutes later to a guy I loved, my mother was next to me, and my entire neighborhood was waiting outside. now, if i was to leave the church it would be much worse for me. Heres a fun fact. Mormons don&#8217;t really believe in a hell the closest thing to hell is outer darkness and only former mormons qualify. Thats right. Only Mormons can go to Mormon Hell.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: j</title>
		<link>http://atheistmom.com/about/#comment-668</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[j]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2012 00:07:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">#comment-668</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I hope you all understand where I am coming from. I added a lot between the lines. I will explain a little of what I meant when I said, :

&quot;Lastly, just because it hasn’t been found by you, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist, unless what I (really only sometimes think) is true, we are all in a computer program that changes history often, and sometimes little bits and pieces are left in our minds to screw with us.&quot;

Just because someone anyone (scientist, teacher, mother, father, friend, love, child, God) says it, it doesn&#039;t make it true. Even God said he would kill everyone and yet spared some. ;) Scientist by the way, use the scientific method to describe their theories. Unless you have gone through your own scientific method to explain your religious beliefs you are not warranted to use someone else&#039;s method. It goes against the scientific method to do so. You must test and prove everything for yourself. A deity from above is none testable, since we for one have no idea where above is, Just because you can&#039;t prove it, it doesn&#039;t mean it doesn&#039;t exist. Actually the only things we know exist are our own thoughts on what we per see (ve) to be true.

&quot;So what if you believe and others think you are wrong, maybe you missed something taught in school, and are a little too dumb (sarcasm of course).&quot;

Many have been taught this and that in school and by schools of thought. Its all a waste of time. We still haven&#039;t come up with any reason to live expect we are born to. Everything else, every little lesson seems in vain. So when I see someone say, I was taught this in school, I think &quot;what the hell does that have to do with explaining it all?&quot; Isn&#039;t that what school is all about. Isn&#039;t that what most hippie or authoritarian teachers try to push their little agendas onto our young ones. Its that school will give you answers to the mysteries of life???? 

Well, anyways... Why call yourself an atheist, when atheist means I don&#039;t believe God is a wooden poll, or a book, or a piece of cracker? Why argue your beliefs of God with anyone else, when the word GOD (dear GOD!!!!) was made up along with every other word in our language. Okay here&#039;s a doozy. Aliens who eat gummy worms made in factories on a different planet are coming to take over the world. See there, is a bunch of words set logically in order and still is a waste of time. Okay sorry if I wasted any of your time with my sayings. Have a good day. :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope you all understand where I am coming from. I added a lot between the lines. I will explain a little of what I meant when I said, :</p>
<p>&#8220;Lastly, just because it hasn’t been found by you, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist, unless what I (really only sometimes think) is true, we are all in a computer program that changes history often, and sometimes little bits and pieces are left in our minds to screw with us.&#8221;</p>
<p>Just because someone anyone (scientist, teacher, mother, father, friend, love, child, God) says it, it doesn&#8217;t make it true. Even God said he would kill everyone and yet spared some. ;) Scientist by the way, use the scientific method to describe their theories. Unless you have gone through your own scientific method to explain your religious beliefs you are not warranted to use someone else&#8217;s method. It goes against the scientific method to do so. You must test and prove everything for yourself. A deity from above is none testable, since we for one have no idea where above is, Just because you can&#8217;t prove it, it doesn&#8217;t mean it doesn&#8217;t exist. Actually the only things we know exist are our own thoughts on what we per see (ve) to be true.</p>
<p>&#8220;So what if you believe and others think you are wrong, maybe you missed something taught in school, and are a little too dumb (sarcasm of course).&#8221;</p>
<p>Many have been taught this and that in school and by schools of thought. Its all a waste of time. We still haven&#8217;t come up with any reason to live expect we are born to. Everything else, every little lesson seems in vain. So when I see someone say, I was taught this in school, I think &#8220;what the hell does that have to do with explaining it all?&#8221; Isn&#8217;t that what school is all about. Isn&#8217;t that what most hippie or authoritarian teachers try to push their little agendas onto our young ones. Its that school will give you answers to the mysteries of life???? </p>
<p>Well, anyways&#8230; Why call yourself an atheist, when atheist means I don&#8217;t believe God is a wooden poll, or a book, or a piece of cracker? Why argue your beliefs of God with anyone else, when the word GOD (dear GOD!!!!) was made up along with every other word in our language. Okay here&#8217;s a doozy. Aliens who eat gummy worms made in factories on a different planet are coming to take over the world. See there, is a bunch of words set logically in order and still is a waste of time. Okay sorry if I wasted any of your time with my sayings. Have a good day. :)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

